I was scheduled to deliver a presentation on selling integrated print solutions to a peer group in Arizona last Saturday at 8am. Instead I was re-routed and had the unpleasant experience of delivering my mom’s eulogy in New York at the exact same time. While I enjoy speaking in front of groups large or small, the group of family and friends gathered for this speech was a tough one to make eye contact with. You must first understand that I’m terrible at funerals, even when I don’t even know the person! So you can imagine my emotions for this one.
After a nice dinner the prior evening with some family
members I sat down and began writing the thoughts that I wanted to share about
my mom’s time on this earth. As I began, the words just flowed. It was
relatively easy to highlight the key points of her life. Even better, it was
much easier to deliver than I could have imagined. Perhaps because the content
was clear, meaningful and peppered with a few laughs was able to keep my
emotions in check and get through it okay.
It wasn’t until a day or so later that I realized what had
happened. Mom had left me good material to talk about. This was a page right
out of one of Stephen Covey’s seven habits, “begin with the end in mind” and a
not so subtle reminder that we’ll all be the subject matter of one of these
speeches one day and that the things we do will become fodder for this final
monologue. Has nothing to do with printing but everything to do with how we
live our lives and pursue our dreams.





