Given the literally thousands of family businesses in the print and graphic communications industry, I thought it appropriate to share Fathers Day reflections this year. At the risk of offering "too much information", there are "lessons learned" from my own father, Frank Hyde, who is a shining example of a great father influencing his son over the course of many years.
Sometimes people ask me how I learned so much about finance and accounting without a formal degree in those subjects. I tell them I grew up with mortgages, literally. As a young boy, I played on my dad's desk while he organized various papers related to a mortgage business that he founded as a supplement to his tax preparation/accounting practice. Ironically, the mortgage documents back then were "Blumberg forms", and it would be 40 years later that Blumberg became one of my clients.
Beyond providing a virtual playground in his office, my dad influenced me to use relationships in building and maintaining business. Time and time again I saw that the glue holding the clients together was his personal connectivity. Although I take pride in my relationships among clients, colleagues, and co-workers, I know that my computer-less dad spent more time IN PERSON with his relationships, and, so far, the internet and computers simply have not replaced the person to person experience.
Basic business skills were on display for me as a young person living in my dad's home. Things like being on time, scheduling meetings, writing follow up notes, and being courteous were learned by being around this master business person. I don't know of any other way to instill these attributes in a young person, other than through "being there".
How to handle adversity is something I learned from my dad in the mid 1990s when his successful-for-40-years mortgage business ran into major problems. I'll never forget the day that he told my mom about the bad news he had kept to himself. To this day, I advise clients in crisis mode to use 4 lessons from my dad's experience that got him through the bad times:
hire the best professional you can;
manage the process through your relationship with that professional;
pay their bills willingly and on time; and
keep living your life.
Now as my dad nears his 89th birthday, you'd think he is sitting in some retirement home or on the beach passing time? Nope. He is still working! His long term transition to a smaller, easier to handle, and yet very profitable accounting practice is a lesson learned for all of us who are concerned or thinking about "down the road". The 5 "lessons learned" from my dad's experience are:
keep only the best clients based on relationships;
hold down overhead;
use part time workers;
avoid projects or clients you don't have the tools to handle well; and
enjoy what you do.
In wrapping up this blog post, I can only say, "Thanks, Dad, and happy fathers day!" Below is a photo of my dad and mom along with Natalie Hyde, my daughter.....guess who is the computer whiz out of that group?




